The family plays an important role in many Chinese lives. That’s why it’s no wonder there are so many Chinese sayings about family. Here are 10 examples.![]() 1. 月到中秋分外明,每逢佳节倍思亲。 (Yuè dào zhōngqiū fènwài míng, měi féng jiājié bèi sīqīn) — The harvest moon is brightest; every festival homesickness multiplies. Familial longing is greatest in China on its traditional family reunion festivals, like Mid-Autumn, the harvest moon festival. More of the meaning behind this saying is revealed in Mid-Autumn Festival's Traditions. 2. 儿行千里母担忧。 (Er xíng qiānlǐ mǔ dānyōu) — When children travel far, mothers worry. 3. 但愿人长久,千里共婵娟。 (Dànyuàn rénchángjiǔ, qiānlǐ gòngchánjuān) — Wishing us long life, though sharing moonlight from afar. This poetic verse expresses (familial) love and homesickness and is one of many Popular Mid-Autumn Festival Sayings. 4. 家和万事兴。 (Jiāhé wànshìxīnɡ) — If a family is harmonious everything will go well. It's like the Biblical: "if a house be divided against itself, that house cannot stand." 5. 家家有本难念的经。 (Jiājiā yǒu běn nán niàn de jīnɡ) — Every family has its problems. Or: "There're skeletons in every family's closet." 6. 清官难断家务事。 (Qīnɡɡuān nán duàn jiāwùshì) — Even an upright official finds it hard to settle a family quarrel. 7. 有其父,必有其子。 (Yǒuqífù,bìyǒuqízǐ) — Where there's a father, there's his son. I.e. "Like father, like son." 8. 家丑不可外扬。 (Jiāchǒu bù kě wài yánɡ) — Family shames must not be spread abroad. I.e. "Do not wash your dirty linen in public." 9. 不当家,不知柴米贵。 (Bù dānɡjiā,bù zhī cháimǐ ɡuì) — If you don't run the family, you don't know the value of fuel and rice. He who heads a family knows the responsibility involved. 10. 金窝,银窝,不如自家的狗窝。 (Jīnwō, yínwō, bùrú zìjiā de ɡǒuwō) — Gold and silver nests can't beat one's family kennel. I.e. "East, west, home is best." |